When we were young, we learned to write ‘wrong’ I don’t remember when the ‘mistake’ was considered a mistake but I accepted it easily and it became a habit Similarly, we accept that some previous spellings are no longer acceptable Therefore, it is important to understand the spelling of these changes. Therefore, it is important to understand the spelling of these changes That’s not a big deal But nowadays, it seems that many people don’t know the use of complete and infinitive verbs There are many ways to get away from these things, but the most important thing is to get away from these things When we say it, we say ‘I’, not ‘I’ But it would be a mistake to write ‘I’m a good guy’ Similarly, we say ‘you’ but when we write it, we have to write ‘you’ ‘Y’ is used when a task is finished (complete verb) and ‘e’ is used when something else is going on after the task (infinitive verb). He eats rice in the morning But, he eats rice and goes to bed History rings out In other words, history rings
Child care and temperament.
Child upbringing and behaviour: (Based on information collected from the Internet) How a child grows up , in what environment, shapes the child’s character, attitude, etc There is no doubt about this The environment will affect the child’s mentality, positively or negatively It is not impossible to change that mindset when you grow up, but it is difficult If a child grows up always listening to others’ criticism, he will always learn to blame others, to think they are bad Such children are very easily perceived as bad by others Children who grow up in violence naturally learn to fight Children who grow up in an environment of fear are always victims of unknown fears They suffer from unnecessary anxiety that something will happen, something accident will happen, something bad will happen Children who grow up in jealousy learn to jealous of themselves Such children are always sad inside and expect regrets from others even after growing up Children are shy when they grow up to be ridiculed by others Such children are self-conscious They think more about whether someone is laughing , whether someone is watching and so on If a child grows up in the jealousy of others, he learns to be jealous of others When a child grows up in shame and humiliation, he becomes a victim of guilt They feel guilty even if they are not guilty
On the other hand, If a child grows up with encouragement, he learns self-confidence They are able to express that self-confidence in their speech, behavior, etc A child who grows up in tolerance learns patience Children who grow up in praise are able to praise others Children who grow up in a loving environment are able to love others Children who grow up in an environment of approval are able to love themselves A recognized environment teaches children that it is good to have a goal It’s better to try to do something If they grow up in an environment of sharing or exchange with others, children learn to be generous Children who grow up in honesty learn truthfulness An environment of justice teaches children to be just Children learn to respect when they grow up in an environment of compassion and sympathy Children who grow up in a safe environment learn to trust themselves and those around them If a child grows up in a friendly environment, he learns to think that this world is beautiful to live in
Therefore , parents can surely play the most important role in making the world beautiful
Looking for light... blue memories
“We go in search of light” – Moina Parijat’s motto I don’t know who named her Moina Parijat, but this beautiful and meaningful name still warms my heart I first met Moina Parijat in 1968 in Tittaborn I was then a third grade student at the Tittaborn Practice School One day a teacher came and told me that there would be a session of Moina Parijat in Tittaborn There will also be participants from our school and a Moina Parijat has been formed for that purpose Named, Kishlay Moina Parijat Chora I have also been selected to join The session will feature various competitions and cultural programmes I was asked to participate in debate competitions, random lectures, races etc The theme of the debate contest was announced, “Example is better than advice.” It’s a new experience for me I knew what random speech meant but had no idea about debate competition I came home and told my father My father wrote something on the subject A couple of days later I was asked to speak to some teachers at school about the subject I stood up and said a trembling sentence, Example is better than advice because….. I was shaking with fear I forgot what my father wrote After standing there for about a minute, one of the teachers said, your clothes on…..” I listened silently, blushing in shame My father tied up a bedding The elder brother picked up the bedding on his bicycle and went ahead My little brother and I followed It was probably about a kilometer from our house to Mihiram Shaikia High School The grandparents study there We got the whole team together at Mihiram Shaikia High School There were about three boys and four girls There are already city teams like Jorhat, Golaghat etc. arriving and filling up I started to feel inferior to the confidence of the smart, energetic urban children We were allowed to stay in a small classroom Our team was probably the smallest team The other two boys did not take bedding My bed became the common bed The girls also stayed in the same room next door They left us there and went away We also began to enjoy the innovative atmosphere They came one by one in the random speech competition and gave speeches Especially a girl from Jorhat They hid their hands and feet in their stomachs in fear I thought there was no point in joining I sat quietly The same is true of debate competitions I didn’t join But I knew it would be bad not to participate in something and decided to participate in the 100 meter race They also came to watch the race I ran well in races at school But that day I had to run with competitors from different places The whistle blew I ran with my life There are many ways to get away from it. There are many ways to get away from it I bowed my head in shame and walked away without looking at my grandparents I don’t remember our team participating anywhere else But at the cultural event, the girls impressed everyone by acting out a scene of Krishna stealing and eating salt (probably part of the removal of the thief). Chipha Satra Girl I’ve been used to acting like that since I was a kid I thought our honor was saved
The session ended the next day I managed to tie the bedding and put it on my grandfather’s bicycle My mother took out the clothes and belongings to wash Seeing a brass bowl I had brought with me, my mother asked, “What color are these in the bowl? Couldn’t you wash it?” I noticed it carefully and remembered The girls mixed blue paint with coconut oil in my bowl to paint the face of Krishna when they were dressing up for the acting I tried my best to clean it but I brought it home I don’t know how long it took for that bowl to be cleaned but those days will remain forever etched in my memory